very likely looking for someone to cause a little bit of mischief with. x
photo: ekr pictures
I BLOODY LOVE WEDDINGS, BUT I’D LIKE TO THINK THAT’S PRETTY OBVIOUS. WHY? WELL...IT’S A BIT OF A RUBBISH ANSWER BUT HONESTLY, I JUST DO. I’VE ALWAYS BEEN A STORYTELLER AND IN MY OPINION, THERE IS NO BETTER STORY TO TELL THAN THAT OF YOUR WEDDING DAY BECAUSE THE CLICHES ARE TRUE: IT IS THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE, and i would consider it the biggest privilege to be able to tell the story of yours.
// once upon a time...
i’m not one of those people who always had a camera in my hand as a kid. in fact, there was nothing poignant about my childhood that indicated i would be involved in film making or weddings whatsoever. i guess the seed was planted when my parents showed me four weddings & a funeral when it first came out - one of the weddings was filmed in greenwich, london which is where i grew up, YOU SEE. aside from the fact that i was about six years old and therefore, possibly a little too young to be watching a film where the opening scene involveS a significant aMOUNT of f bombs, instead of learning how to swear, i learnt that weddings were pretty special and i soon started planning mine to leonardo di caprio because...titanic.
anyway, fast forward to 2007 and i went to university to study a journalism degree because i wanted to be a telly presenter (my dad said i should’ve been ON BLUE PETER, but i swore too much - not sure where i learnt that sort-of language from…). I SPENT THREE YEARS DOING A LOT OF FILMING, EDITING, DIRECTING, WRITING, A STINT AT THE BBC - AND I DECIDED TO BE AN ENGLISH TEACHER INSTEAD. OF COURSE! AT THIS POINT, I HAD A FAIRLY LONG-SUFFERING BOYFRIEND, ADAM, SO I COULD GET MY WEDDING FIX BY JUST PESTERING HIM TO PROPOSE TO ME INSTEAD. MUCH TO MY DELIGHT, HE SUCCUMBED TO MY CONSTANT BADGERING IN JULY 2015 AFTER HE BOUGHT A HOT TUB - IF HE COULD AFFORD A HOT TUB, HE COULD AFFORD TO BUY ME AN ENGAGEMENT RING, RIGHT?!
photo: smd photography.
our wedding day. 31.07.2016. the west mill, darley abbey.
// THE BEST THING WE BOOKED FOR OUR WEDDING DAY
WHEN PLANNING OUR WEDDING, A WEDDING VIDEOGRAPHER WAS A NON-NEGOTIABLE FOR ME. OUR FRIENDS HAD A VIDEOGRAPHER FOR THEIR WEDDING A FEW YEARS PRIOR AND IT WAS THE MOST MAGICAL THING I’D EVER SEEN. LIKE FOUR WEDDINGS & A FUNERAL BUT REAL-LIFE (AND NO FUNERAL I SHOULD ADD...)! DESPITE SEVERAL PROTESTS ABOUT THE COST IN THE LEAD UP TO OUR WEDDING DAY, IF YOU COME ROUND TO OUR HOUSE FOR THE FIRST TIME NOW, I GUARANTEE ADAM WILL PUT ON THE WEDDING VIDEO FOR YOU. HE LOVES IT - ‘THE BEST THING WE BOOKED’ - HE SAYS. I LOVE IT TOO, BUT I KNEW I WOULD, OBVIOUSLY! RELIVING OUR DAY AS SOON AS WE HIT PLAY WITH ALL OF OUR MEMORIES COMING BACK TO LIFE RIGHT IN FRONT OF OUR EYES IS JUST UTTERLY PRICELESS.
I SHARED MY WEDDING PLANNING EXPERIENCE IN A BLOG (BECAUSE THIS WAS BEFORE INSTAGRAM HIT THE BIG TIME - i know, how old school!) AND AFTERWARDS, I WAS AMAZED BY HOW MANY BRIDES SAID THEY WISHED THEY’D BOOKED A VIDEOGRAPHER. THE THING IS, WHEN WE GOT MARRIED, WEDDING VIDEOGRAPHY WAS SEEN AS A PROPER LUXURY, AND so PEOPLE DIDN’T REALISE JUST HOW VALUABLE IT WAS TO HAVE THE MEMORIES CAPTURED ON FILM UNTIL THE MOMENT HAD GONE. I GENUINELY FELT SAD THAT THIS CROPPED Up AS A COMMON REGRET IN MY BRIDAL CIRCLE SO THAT GOT MY COGS TURNING & i soon realised there was a gap in the market that might have a perfectly ‘lou’ sized hole i could fill.
// natural, unobtrusive and discreet FILM MAKING
LIKE ALL GREAT IDEAS, I CAME UP WITH RATHER LOVELY FILMS A YEAR AFTER OUR WEDDING IN THE QUEUE FOR THE AVATAR RIDE AT ANIMAL KINGDOM IN DISNEY WORLD (IT WAS THREE HOURS LONG - WHAT ELSE WAS I SUPPOSED TO DO?!). A FEW DAYS LATER, I BOUGHT MY FIRST DSLR (A SONY A7II FYI) AND ASKED A PAL IF I COULD FILM THEIR WEDDING HAPPENING THE FOLLOWING MONTH - NO EXPECTATIONS, LET’S SEE HOW it GOES. I JUST USED MY ONE CAMERA, ONE LENS, A MONOPOD AND SHOT THE ENTIRE THING WITHOUT HAVING TO GIVE THE COUPLE A SINGLE DIRECTION. BUT THAT WAS EXACTLY HOW I PLANNED IT BECAUSE I ALREADY HAD ACCESS TO THE BEST MARKET RESEARCH A NEW BUSINESS OWNER COULD ASK FOR - ACTUAL BRIDES WHO WERE STILL FOLLOWING MY BLOG! I KNEW COUPLES DIDN’T WANT A HOLLYWOOD FILM STYLE SET UP, I KNEW THEY DIDN’T WANT TO BE PUT INTO CRINGY POSES OR TAKEN OFF ON A SHOOT THAT TOOK HOURS. RATHER, I KNEW THEY JUST WANTED TO BE ABLE TO SEE THE DAY THROUGH A GUEST’S EYES...AND THAT’S WHAT I WAS ABLE TO DELIVER.
I POPPED THE VIDEO ONLINE TO SEE IF ANYONE PICKED IT UP AND BY SOME MIRACLE, A FEW ACTUAL PROPER REAL-LIFE COUPLES ASKED IF I COULD FILM THEIR ACTUAL PROPER REAL-LIFE WEDDING DAYS. AND THANKS TO THESE ACTUAL PROPER REAL-LIFE COUPLES TAKING A CHANCE ON ME FILMING THEIR ACTUAL PROPER REAL-LIFE WEDDINGS, I WAS ABLE TO LEARN AND DEVELOP MY FILMING STYLE INTO WHAT YOU SEE TODAY...AND THERE’S NOTHING I’D RATHER SPEND MY LIFE DOING! I’M 100% MARRIED TO WEDDING VIDEOGRAPHY FOR SURE - ‘TIL DEATH DO US PART.
chances of me having just as much fun on your wedding day as you guys? well…
photo: natalie lauren from natalie&deej’s wedding at norwood park in april 2022 :) x